MySQL WHERE IN Query - ORDER BY Match

Question

I'm trying to rephrase my question, cause my last one wasn't clear to everyone.

This is my Test Table

+----------+---------+-------+
|  rel_id  |  genre  | movie |
+----------+---------+-------+
|    1     |    1    |   3   |
|    2     |    8    |   3   |
|    3     |    3    |   3   |
|    4     |    2    |   5   |
|    5     |    8    |   5   |
|    6     |    3    |   5   |
|    7     |    1    |   8   |
|    8     |    8    |   8   |
|    9     |    3    |   8   |
|   10     |    5    |   9   |
|   11     |    7    |   9   |
|   12     |    9    |   9   |
|   13     |    4    |   9   |
|   14     |    12   |   9   |
|   15     |    1    |   10  |
|   16     |    8    |   10  |
|   17     |    3    |   10  |
|   18     |    5    |   10  |
|   19     |    1    |   11  |
|   20     |    2    |   11  |
|   21     |    8    |   11  |
|   22     |    5    |   11  |
|   23     |    3    |   11  |
+----------+---------+-------+

Result should be in the following order if I look for movies with genre 1, 8, 3 : Movie no. 3, 8, 10, 5, 11 (9 is out).

If it's not possible then I just want all with the exact match "1, 8, 3", in that case I just would get movie no. 3 AND 8.