How to write operator= for anonymous union with non-trivial members with virtual methods

Question

C++11 gaves us the ability to create anonymous unions with non-trivial members. That can be very useful sometimes - for example, if I want to create Holder class for some non-trivial object without default ctor.
Let's make this NonTrivial object more interesting by giving it a virtual method:

#include <stdint.h>
#include <stdio.h>

struct Base
{
    virtual void something() { printf("something\n"); }
};

struct NonTrivial : Base 
{
    explicit NonTrivial( int ) : a(1), b(2), c(3), d(4) { printf("NonTrivial\n"); }

    virtual void something() override { printf("something non trivial\n"); }

    int a;
    int b;
    int c;
    int d;
};

struct Holder
{
    Holder() : isNonTrivial(false), dummy(0x77) {}

    Holder( NonTrivial n) : isNonTrivial(true), nonTrivial( n ) {}

    bool isNonTrivial;
    union
    {
        int dummy;
        NonTrivial nonTrivial;
    };

    Holder & operator=( const Holder & rhs )
    {
        isNonTrivial = rhs.isNonTrivial;

        if( isNonTrivial ) 
            nonTrivial = rhs.nonTrivial;

        return *this;
    }
};

int main() {

    Holder holder_1;
    NonTrivial n(1);

    Holder holder_2( n );

    holder_1 = holder_2;

    holder_2.nonTrivial.something();
    holder_1.nonTrivial.something();

    return 0;

}

This just works. However, this works only because compiler doesn't actually make a virtual call here. Let's force it:

Base * ptr = &holder_1.nonTrivial;

ptr->something(); 

This produces a segfault.
But why? I did more or less the obvious thing - checked if holder holds a non-trivial object and if so - copied it.
After reading the assembly I saw that this operator= doesn't actually copy vtable pointer from rhs.nonTrivial. I assume that this happens because operator= for NonTrivial should only be called on fully-constructed object and fully-constructed object should already have its vtable pointer initialized - so why bother and copy it?

Questions:

1. Is my thinking correct?
2. How should operator= look like to create a full copy of nonTrivial object? I have two ideas - delete operator= entirely and force the user to use copy ctor - or use placement new instead of nonTrivial = rhs.nonTrivial - but maybe there are some other options?

P.S. I'm aware of std::optional and the like, I'm trying to understand how to do it myself.

Answer 1

If anybody will stumble upon this question looking for a quick answer, here's how I solved this issue using placement new:

template< typename T, typename ... Args >
void inplace_new( T & obj, Args && ... args )
{
    auto * t = &obj;

    t = new(t) T{ args... };
}

Holder & operator=( const Holder & rhs )
{
    isNonTrivial = rhs.isNonTrivial;

    if( isNonTrivial ) 
        inplace_new( nonTrivial, rhs.nonTrivial );

    return *this;
}

Don't forget #include <new> :)