How to show the ActiveX Yellow bar?

Question

I'm trying to set up a webpage that downloads the OCX and installs it with the user permission when the user right click in the yellow bar

Note: it's a business app and I know... IE, but 95% of company customers use it and it's easy for us to move from Windows > OCX first and then to full WebService

What I did was create a cab file with:

- eds.cab (signed with an SSL certificate)
     |--- EDS.ocx
     |--- setup.inf

the setup.inf has this code:

[version]
signature="$CHICAGO$"

[Add.Code]
EDS.ocx=EDS.ocx

[EDS.ocx]
file-win32-x86=thiscab
clsid={8EC68701-329D-4567-BCB5-9EE4BA43D358}
FileVersion=3,5,0,150
RegisterServer=yes

and then the webpage contains the tag like this:

<object 
    id="ActiveX" 
    classid="CLSID:8EC68701-329D-4567-BCB5-9EE4BA43D358" 
    width="14" 
    height="14" 
    codebase="http://localhost/EDS.Webservice/EDS.cab#version=3,5,0,150">
    <param name="tabName" value="Stop:http://localhost/EDS.Webservice/" />
</object>

and they I navigate to the http://localhost/EDS.Webservice/

The issue is that I do not get that yellow bar, just the ACL asking me to accept it.

Does anyone know what I could have been missing?

It only shows the ACL message on Windows 7, never the yellow bar first like, Flash plugin... :-(

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What we are after:

Thank you.

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Internet Explorer Settings are as Default, both Security on Advanced Tab as well Trust Domains

Answer 1

Maybe the problem is in absent Deployment section. Try to modify your .inf file:

[version]
signature="$CHICAGO$"
AdvancedINF=2.0

[Add.Code]
EDS.ocx=EDS.ocx

[Deployment] 
InstallScope=user|machine

[EDS.ocx]
file-win32-x86=thiscab
clsid={8EC68701-329D-4567-BCB5-9EE4BA43D358}
FileVersion=3,5,0,150
RegisterServer=yes