How can I find out the total physical memory (RAM) of my linux box suitable to be parsed by a shell script?

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Have you tried cat /proc/meminfo? You can then awk or grep out what you want, MemTotal e.g.

awk '/MemTotal/ {print $2}' /proc/meminfo

or

cat /proc/meminfo | grep MemTotal

If you're interested in the physical RAM, use the command dmidecode. It gives you a lot more information than just that, but depending on your use case, you might also want to know if the 8G in the system come from 2x4GB sticks or 4x2GB sticks.

cat /proc/meminfo | grep MemTotal or free gives you the exact amount of RAM your server has. This is not "available memory".

I guess your issue comes up when you have a VM and you would like to calculate the full amount of memory hosted by the hypervisor but you will have to log into the hypervisor in that case.

cat /proc/meminfo | grep MemTotal

is equivalent to

 getconf -a | grep PAGES | awk 'BEGIN {total = 1} {if (NR == 1 || NR == 3) total *=$NF} END {print total / 1024" kB"}'

Add the last 2 entries of /proc/meminfo, they give you the exact memory present on the host.

Example:

DirectMap4k:       10240 kB
DirectMap2M:     4184064 kB

10240 + 4184064 = 4194304 kB = 4096 MB.

One more useful command:
vmstat -s | grep memory
sample output on my machine is:

  2050060 K total memory
  1092992 K used memory
   743072 K active memory
   177084 K inactive memory
   957068 K free memory
   385388 K buffer memory

another useful command to get memory information is:
free
sample output is:

             total       used       free     shared    buffers     cached
Mem:       2050060    1093324     956736        108     385392     386812
-/+ buffers/cache:     321120    1728940
Swap:      2095100       2732    2092368

One observation here is that, the command free gives information about swap space also.
The following link may be useful for you:
http://www.linuxnix.com/find-ram-details-in-linuxunix/

free -h | awk '/Mem\:/ { print $2 }' 

This will provide you with the total memory in your system in human readable format and automatically scale to the appropriate unit ( e.g. bytes, KB, MB, or GB).

dmidecode -t 17 | grep  Size:

Adding all above values displayed after "Size: " will give exact total physical size of all RAM sticks in server.